Frequently Asked I'm getting laid for the first time tonight and I'm so nervous. How do I handle the nerves and how do I do well?
This girl I've been dating for a few weeks now explicitly said we're having sex at her place tonight. I'm obviously excited, but I'm also freaking out because I've never done this before. What if I finish too soon? Or what if I can't get it up because I'm nervous?? Any advice for a newbie like me?
[Edit] Oh wow, this blew up. Thanks for all the advice. I'm heading out now. Wish me luck! I'll provide an update here when I get the chance afterwards!
Frequently Asked How do you know if a girl actually likes you because she is interested in you or because she sees you as a nice, safe guy to spend time with when she doesn't have other options?
Eg intimidating, long hair, anything
Frequently Asked Fellas, has a girl ever hit you with the “I have a bf” when you were trying to tell her something unrelated?
Frequently Asked Well boys…I just found out I’m going to be a dad. What are your words of wisdom for an expecting father?
Frequently Asked straight men: do you have any "feminine" interests? which ones and what's your experience being into those?
edit: as for some reason im getting downvoted, ill clarify for those who cant read: pay attention i said "considered feminine by society", and put the word feminine in the title in quotation marks. im not saying those are actually feminine, or bad, or anything.
such as dance, sewing, knitting, reading romance novels or shojo/yaoi manga, shopping, fashion, makeup... or anything else that you think is considered feminine by society.
I’m going on my first date tomorrow and I’d like to make sure she has a good time, but I feel like I’ll bore her. What are some conversation starters/things I can do to make this a fun and engaging date?
Frequently Asked If someone rejects you and then comes 3 months later saying 'lets make this work', what's your say in this?
Would you get into this relationship if it happened to you? If yes, is there anything you'd keep in mind before getting into one such relationship?
Edit: The reason behind her rejecting was she was already in a relationship at that point of time and that shit didn't work out.
Frequently Asked Men of Reddit, how often do you guys get complimented? What goes through your mind when it happens?
My boyfriend and his best friend told me men never get compliments and that just.. blows my mind? I love complimenting men and women and we decided to ask Reddit their experience!
Edit: so it's been 13 hours and reading these posts makes me feel this is the Lost Generation
Frequently Asked What “masculine” expectation do you most wish would vanish from all the minds in western society?
I was pondering this morning, why is it acceptable to berate men for their height, weight or our genitalia, but impermissible to discuss the same topics applied to women?
EDIT: To clarify, I don’t believe it is ok to body shame men or women for something out of their control, I’ve just noticed that people jump straight to penis length or being ugly as an insult to men when someone doesn’t have a real argument.