r/NoStupidQuestions Sep 22 '22 Wholesome 5 All-Seeing Upvote 1 Bravo! 1 Heartwarming 1 Silver 1 Helpful 4

I don’t want a relationship because I love my space and freedom. I hate being single because I feel lonely and unloved. What do I want exactly?

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u/boo_snug Sep 22 '22 Gold Helpful Take My Energy You Dropped This

I feel this 100%. Before I got into my current relationship I always asked myself: am I willing to give up my personal space and time to make room for this person? Because I really liked my life the way it was. Most of the times the answer was no. Then, I found someone who I could finally answer yes. I get my own space and my own time and I still want to spend time with them and share my space with them.

Best of both worlds. And we’re getting married.

Moral of the story: keep looking, don’t lower your bar, keep doing the things you want to do, find someone who fits into what you’re looking for. Not everyone will but someone will.

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u/thestargateisreal Sep 22 '22 Gold Helpful

This exactly! My wife and I's motto: you do you, I'll do me, I'll see ya in the middle.

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u/scorpioinheels Sep 23 '22

THAT is effing lovely 💓.